Don’t be afraid to make the first move. Take into account that not everyone moves at the same pace in life. Often, if you don’t initiate something, it won’t get done. If you make the first move and things don’t work out, you are right back to where you started. But if you make the first move and things do work out, you’ll be thrilled you took that risk. Weigh out the risk-to-reward ratio, then decide.