Focus on what you want, not on what you don’t want. Spend time and energy only on that which you desire. Forget the rest. Instead of saying, “I don’t want to fail the test,” try “I will pass the test.” I read somewhere that it wasn’t until ads went from “Stop Smoking” to “Live Smoke-free” that they started to have a real impact on people. Always emphasize positive outcomes rather than negative ones. Books Authored by Sunjay Nath:  |